{"id":10509,"date":"2012-05-05T08:36:33","date_gmt":"2012-05-05T06:36:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.myza.co.za\/05\/dear-jessica-leandra-i-can-only-say-disgraceful\/"},"modified":"2012-05-05T08:36:33","modified_gmt":"2012-05-05T06:36:33","slug":"dear-jessica-leandra-i-can-only-say-disgraceful","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.myza.co.za\/press\/dear-jessica-leandra-i-can-only-say-disgraceful\/","title":{"rendered":"Dear Jessica Leandra, I can only say; \u201cDisgraceful\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\t\t\t<!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><\/p>\n<p>Use of the K-word, in South Africa especially, is a distinct no no. The majority of our population is still trying to get over the negative connotations that the word brings. As a 40 something English speaking white male, every time I hear that word I still imagine short bull whips lashing down on dark skin and hear German Shepherds barking, foaming at the mouth and straining at the lead. I hear marching boots and rifles being cocked. I smell tyres burning as the stench seeks to overlay another even less salubrious sickly sweet smell.<\/p>\n<p>In the army it was a word freely used in an attempt to beat the English sense of propriety and fair play out of us.<\/p>\n<p>To hear children of 18 to 25 years old use the word makes me squirm with shame. Yes, our \u2018born free\u2019 children do use it sometimes.<\/p>\n<p>BUT to see someone who has the potential to be a role model for our country, someone who is supposed to be pretty and, by extension, only have pretty thoughts use it is just disgraceful.<\/p>\n<p>What possesses a person who has known freedom and experienced our rainbow nation for most of their life, to sit down and actually type the 6 letter K-word word out in anger and then consciously push the TWEET button?<\/p>\n<p>And then claim it was \u2018revenge\u2019 for sexual harassment?<\/p>\n<p>I am deeply sorry for you Jessica Leandra as your \u2018mistake\u2019 is now destined to haunt you for a long time to come and I can only echo what is represented in the image below:<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3252\" src=\"http:\/\/www.myza.co.za\/press\/wp-content\/plugins\/rss-poster\/cache\/99115_YouTwitFace.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"319\" height=\"67\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">YouTwitFace<\/p>\n<p><!-- tweet id : 198294580154736640 --><span>WTF? RT @<a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/user?screen_name=jesslevitt\" class=\"twitter-action\">jesslevitt<\/a>: Beg ur pardon?RT @<a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/user?screen_name=JessicaLeandra\" class=\"twitter-action\">JessicaLeandra<\/a> Just, well took on a on arrogant and disrespectful kaffir &#8230; <a href=\"http:\/\/t.co\/cyvpVGRU\" rel=\"nofollow\">http:\/\/t.co\/cyvpVGRU<\/a><\/span><img decoding=\"async\" align=\"middle\" src=\"http:\/\/www.myza.co.za\/press\/wp-content\/plugins\/rss-poster\/cache\/99115_bird.png\" \/><a title=\"tweeted on 4 May 2012 8:14 am\" href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/#!\/Hypress\/status\/198294580154736640\" target=\"_blank\">4 May 2012 8:14 am<\/a> via <a href=\"http:\/\/ubersocial.com\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"blank\">UberSocial for BlackBerry<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?in_reply_to=198294580154736640\" class=\"bbp-action bbp-reply-action\" title=\"Reply\"><span><em><\/em><strong>Reply<\/strong><\/span><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/retweet?tweet_id=198294580154736640\" class=\"bbp-action bbp-retweet-action\" title=\"Retweet\"><span><em><\/em><strong>Retweet<\/strong><\/span><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/favorite?tweet_id=198294580154736640\" class=\"bbp-action bbp-favorite-action\" title=\"Favorite\"><span><em><\/em><strong>Favorite<\/strong><\/span><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/user?screen_name=Hypress\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.myza.co.za\/press\/wp-content\/plugins\/rss-poster\/cache\/99115_337378657_normal.jpg\" \/><\/a><!-- end of tweet --><br \/>\n<!-- tweet id : 198295290678218752 --><span>@<a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/user?screen_name=Hypress\" class=\"twitter-action\">Hypress<\/a> @<a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/user?screen_name=jesslevitt\" class=\"twitter-action\">jesslevitt<\/a> Tweeted with anger after an incident last night. Forget it pls, I dnt stand still against sexual harassment, thats all.<\/span><img decoding=\"async\" align=\"middle\" src=\"http:\/\/www.myza.co.za\/press\/wp-content\/plugins\/rss-poster\/cache\/99115_bird.png\" \/><a title=\"tweeted on 4 May 2012 8:17 am\" href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/#!\/JessicaLeandra\/status\/198295290678218752\" target=\"_blank\">4 May 2012 8:17 am<\/a> via <a href=\"http:\/\/ubersocial.com\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"blank\">UberSocial for BlackBerry<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?in_reply_to=198295290678218752\" class=\"bbp-action bbp-reply-action\" title=\"Reply\"><span><em><\/em><strong>Reply<\/strong><\/span><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/retweet?tweet_id=198295290678218752\" class=\"bbp-action bbp-retweet-action\" title=\"Retweet\"><span><em><\/em><strong>Retweet<\/strong><\/span><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/favorite?tweet_id=198295290678218752\" class=\"bbp-action bbp-favorite-action\" title=\"Favorite\"><span><em><\/em><strong>Favorite<\/strong><\/span><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/user?screen_name=JessicaLeandra\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.myza.co.za\/press\/wp-content\/plugins\/rss-poster\/cache\/99115_smaller_normal.JPG\" \/><\/a><!-- end of tweet --><br \/>\n<!-- tweet id : 198301298670583808 --><span>.@<a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/user?screen_name=JessicaLeandra\" class=\"twitter-action\">JessicaLeandra<\/a> @<a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/user?screen_name=hypress\" class=\"twitter-action\">hypress<\/a> @<a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/user?screen_name=jesslevitt\" class=\"twitter-action\">jesslevitt<\/a> you don&#8217;t stand still against sexual harassment? Says the girl half naked in her avi. SMH.<\/span><img decoding=\"async\" align=\"middle\" src=\"http:\/\/www.myza.co.za\/press\/wp-content\/plugins\/rss-poster\/cache\/99115_bird.png\" \/><a title=\"tweeted on 4 May 2012 8:41 am\" href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/#!\/meaganjanecooke\/status\/198301298670583808\" target=\"_blank\">about 23 hours ago<\/a> via <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/#!\/download\/iphone\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"blank\">Twitter for iPhone<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?in_reply_to=198301298670583808\" class=\"bbp-action bbp-reply-action\" title=\"Reply\"><span><em><\/em><strong>Reply<\/strong><\/span><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/retweet?tweet_id=198301298670583808\" class=\"bbp-action bbp-retweet-action\" title=\"Retweet\"><span><em><\/em><strong>Retweet<\/strong><\/span><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/favorite?tweet_id=198301298670583808\" class=\"bbp-action bbp-favorite-action\" title=\"Favorite\"><span><em><\/em><strong>Favorite<\/strong><\/span><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/user?screen_name=meaganjanecooke\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.myza.co.za\/press\/wp-content\/plugins\/rss-poster\/cache\/99115_image_normal.jpg\" \/><\/a><!-- end of tweet --><br \/>\n<!-- tweet id : 198297450807689216 --><span>@<a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/user?screen_name=JessicaLeandra\" class=\"twitter-action\">JessicaLeandra<\/a> are you mad? She tweeted out of anger?! If someone sexually harasses u go to the cops! <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/search?q=%23rasist\" title=\"#rasist\">#rasist<\/a><\/span><img decoding=\"async\" align=\"middle\" src=\"http:\/\/www.myza.co.za\/press\/wp-content\/plugins\/rss-poster\/cache\/99115_bird.png\" \/><a title=\"tweeted on 4 May 2012 8:26 am\" href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/#!\/MissB_zn\/status\/198297450807689216\" target=\"_blank\">4 May 2012 8:26 am<\/a> via <a href=\"http:\/\/blackberry.com\/twitter\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"blank\">Twitter for BlackBerry\u00ae<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?in_reply_to=198297450807689216\" class=\"bbp-action bbp-reply-action\" title=\"Reply\"><span><em><\/em><strong>Reply<\/strong><\/span><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/retweet?tweet_id=198297450807689216\" class=\"bbp-action bbp-retweet-action\" title=\"Retweet\"><span><em><\/em><strong>Retweet<\/strong><\/span><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/favorite?tweet_id=198297450807689216\" class=\"bbp-action bbp-favorite-action\" title=\"Favorite\"><span><em><\/em><strong>Favorite<\/strong><\/span><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/user?screen_name=MissB_zn\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.myza.co.za\/press\/wp-content\/plugins\/rss-poster\/cache\/f19d4_FacebookHomescreenImage_normal.jpg\" \/><\/a><!-- end of tweet --><\/p>\n<p>By the way Jessica Leandra posted an apology on her blog \u2013 if you feel like reading it feel free to Google her or click through from her Twitter page \u2013 personally I think it is a lame apology but then it could be because I am sexist or racist or any one of the \u2018ist\u2019s that people throw at you when they play the player and not the ball!<\/p>\n<p><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic -->\t\t<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Use of the K-word, in South Africa especially, is a distinct no no. The majority of our population is still trying to get over the negative connotations that the word brings. 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