{"id":126254,"date":"2018-11-20T14:47:48","date_gmt":"2018-11-20T12:47:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.myza.co.za\/policies-in-south-africa-must-stop-ignoring-families-daily-realities-the-conversation\/"},"modified":"2018-11-20T14:47:48","modified_gmt":"2018-11-20T12:47:48","slug":"policies-in-south-africa-must-stop-ignoring-families-daily-realities-the-conversation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.myza.co.za\/press\/policies-in-south-africa-must-stop-ignoring-families-daily-realities-the-conversation\/","title":{"rendered":"Policies in South Africa must stop ignoring families&#8217; daily realities | The Conversation"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a target=\"_blank\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"http:\/\/theconversation.com\/policies-in-south-africa-must-stop-ignoring-families-daily-realities-107199\">Policies in South Africa must stop ignoring families&#8217; daily realities<\/a>: <\/p>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/246184\/original\/file-20181119-76144-nq5imx.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=45&amp;auto=format&amp;w=496&amp;fit=clip\" \/><figcaption><span class=\"caption\">South Africa has one of the lowest rates of parents living with their children in the world.<\/span> <span class=\"attribution\"><span class=\"source\">Shutterstock<\/span><\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>What is \u201ca family\u201d? In South African law, the answer \u2013 or rather, <em>answers<\/em> \u2013 are broad. For example, it\u2019s not considered unusual or unacceptable for children to move between kin and to be raised at different stages by grandparents, parents and other relatives. Kinship care is a widespread and customary practice in South Africa, as it is elsewhere in southern Africa. <\/p>\n<p>The reason for this is partly cultural and partly historical. The apartheid system literally capitalised on the role of extended family, particularly women. It forcibly fragmented families and separated children from parents.<\/p>\n<p>The result of this can be seen in international comparisons from the World Family Map: according to this report, South Africa has one of the lowest rates of parent co-residence with children in the world. Over 12 million of the country\u2019s 19 million children don\u2019t live with their fathers. Four million don\u2019t live with either of their biological parents.<\/p>\n<p>Across the world, families are changing: marriage rates are falling; single parenting is on the rise. In some ways South Africa follows this trend. But it differs in the case of parental absence and the fact that most children\u2019s parents don\u2019t live together.<\/p>\n<p>Apartheid imposed legislation to fracture families. Its policies saw many men leave their families to work in mines or cities, and to live in single-sex hostels away from their wives and children. Forced removals and a lack of suitable family accommodation in cities presented huge obstacles to family life. Many of these obstacles persist today. The country\u2019s policies don\u2019t, by and large, address them meaningfully.<\/p>\n<p>The diversity of families is one of the important underlying themes of the South African Child Gauge 2018, launched on November 20 to coincide with World Children\u2019s Day.<\/p>\n<p>The Child Gauge describes childcare as one of many, often competing, family strategies. It recommends that policies and services should be more sensitive to the realities of South African family dynamics.<\/p>\n<h2>Policies ignore reality<\/h2>\n<p>One of the hangovers from apartheid is the entrenched idea of the nuclear family \u2013 heterosexual mother and father living together with their children \u2013 as \u201cideal\u201d. This notion has remained remarkably persistent; its privileged status is sometimes implicit in policies and in the attitudes of those who implement policy.<\/p>\n<p>The White Paper on Families consciously departs from assumptions about nuclear families as a normative model. It acknowledges the diversity of family forms and living arrangements.<\/p>\n<p>Yet much of its content suggests an underlying vision of the ideal family as a stable unit built on the foundation of marital union and biological parents living together with their children.<\/p>\n<p>This ignores global and South African realities. Marriage rates are declining  across the world. In South Africa, they have been dropping since the 1960s.<\/p>\n<p>The laws and systems for birth registration are oriented to nuclear arrangements. This makes it difficult for unmarried fathers and grandparents to register children in their care. An astonishing 60% of children don\u2019t have their father\u2019s name on their birth certificate. That can have real consequences: it\u2019s difficult to claim maintenance, and if the child\u2019s father dies it\u2019s difficult to prove orphan status and claim the associated benefits and protections.<\/p>\n<p>And while the law states that children have a right to family care and grandparents have a duty of care, some of its policies undermine this. The state places orphaned children who already live with family members (mostly grandparents) in foster care with their family. This formalises an existing arrangement, but introduces an enormous amount of paperwork and red tape.<\/p>\n<p>The foster care system is resource-intensive. It requires investigations and reports by social workers, formal placement by the courts and regular reviews. It\u2019s meant to be a temporary arrangement for children who are removed from their families because of abuse or neglect.<\/p>\n<p>By insisting that orphaned children living with grandparents should be monitored by social workers, the state seems to regard extended families with suspicion. This is an inappropriate use of resources given that extended families care for much larger numbers of children whose parents live elsewhere, and are not subjected to the same scrutiny. It has also reduced the state\u2019s capacity to protect children who are abused. <\/p>\n<p>Such policies suggest that the state doesn\u2019t realise kinship care isn\u2019t always a choice. It may sometimes be a necessity as families strategise to maintain multiple households, to secure adequate housing at migration destinations, to further the education of their members and to find work and provide income.<\/p>\n<h2>Addressing the issues<\/h2>\n<p>What can be done to improve this situation?<\/p>\n<p>First, demand-driven responsive services need to be strengthened so that families can rely on an efficient response when they need urgent assistance. All services should be delivered in a way that enables equitable access for families who need them, irrespective of their structure or household form.<\/p>\n<p>The Draft Care and Protection Policy, published for comment in 2018, proposes that for children living with kin whose parents live elsewhere, the kinship carer and parent must formalise the arrangement by concluding a \u201cparenting rights and responsibilities\u201d agreement.  <\/p>\n<p>Rather than trying to regulate families, the current state structures should support families to achieve their desired living arrangements and childcare choices. It needs to address the structural constraints by providing services and infrastructure \u2013 like adequate housing, safer environments and quality childcare facilities \u2013 that make it possible for children and parents to live together if they wish.<\/p>\n<p>It is only in this way that the Constitution\u2019s progressive and inclusive vision will be fulfilled.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/counter.theconversation.com\/content\/107199\/count.gif\" alt=\"The Conversation\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" \/> <\/p>\n<p class=\"fine-print\"><em><span>Katharine Hall has received funding from the National Research Foundation. <\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><small><strong>Source:<\/strong> <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"http:\/\/theconversation.com\/policies-in-south-africa-must-stop-ignoring-families-daily-realities-107199\">The Conversation \u2013 Articles (AFRICA)<\/a><\/small><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<p>Read more on <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/theconversation.com\" target=\"_blank\">The Conversation<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Join the fun:<\/strong> <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.myza.co.za\/add-your-event\/\">Add Your event<\/a> | <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.mypr.co.za\/submit\">Submit a Press Release<\/a> | <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.myza.co.za\/directory\/\">Add your listing<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Policies in South Africa must stop ignoring families&#8217; daily realities: South Africa has one of the lowest rates of parents living with their children in the world. 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