{"id":234288,"date":"2022-08-16T20:06:37","date_gmt":"2022-08-16T18:06:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.africa-newsroom.com\/press\/girls-education-an-uphill-task-village-headman-challenges-malawis-deeply-held-traditions?lang=en"},"modified":"2022-08-16T20:06:37","modified_gmt":"2022-08-16T18:06:37","slug":"girls-education-an-uphill-task-village-headman-challenges-malawis-deeply-held-traditions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.myza.co.za\/press\/girls-education-an-uphill-task-village-headman-challenges-malawis-deeply-held-traditions\/","title":{"rendered":"Girls&#8217; education an &#8220;uphill task&#8221;: Village headman challenges Malawi&#8217;s deeply held traditions"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"image_wrap\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.africa-newsroom.com\/files\/thumb\/9ab7d483b2cd176\/600\/418\" alt=\"UNFPA - East and Southern Africa\" \/><\/div>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.africa-newsroom.com\/africarc\/loganalytics?press_id=212225&amp;press_source=UNFPA - East and Southern Africa\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sitting under a&nbsp;mango tree, Village Headman Patete marvels at a group of girls who are&nbsp;singing as they walk to&nbsp;a nearby primary school. In the past, a scene like this was not common in the village. Many girls stayed at home, while boys went to school &#8211; a tradition he is changing, one girl at a time.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;It&rsquo;s been an uphill task,&rdquo; says the headman, who is from the district of Machinga. &ldquo;I had to go against some deeply held traditions to persuade my people to see [that] girls need&nbsp;access to education, just like boys.&rdquo;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;I had to go against some deeply held traditions to persuade my people to see [that] girls need&nbsp;access to education, just like boys.&rdquo;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Championing girls&#039;&nbsp;education<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>For a long time now, the headman has&nbsp;campaigned in&nbsp;his community for&nbsp;recognition of&nbsp;the importance of equality between girls and boys.<\/p>\n<p>To support him&nbsp;in his quest to support girls&#039;&nbsp;education, he was given an opportunity to attend&nbsp;a training session as part of the Spotlight Initiative, funded by the European Union. As a pillar of his community, his opinion is important in changing the way men and boys think about the role of women and girls.<\/p>\n<p>The training focused on ending sexual and gender-based violence, and increasing awareness of human rights. It&nbsp;highlighted&nbsp;the rights of women and how these were diminished. &ldquo;As a community, we take for granted so many things,&rdquo; Patete says,&nbsp;&ldquo;for instance, the workload we put on women in the home and on our farms.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Fighting culture to keep girls in school<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;In our culture, even if we are coming from the field, the woman carries all of the farming equipment while the men stride home with [their] hands in their pockets. In the home, the wife has to cook again, while the husband is resting. This training has given me a much broader outlook on these challenges,&rdquo; he says.<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;It is something that in the past was somehow socialized in us that women should do more work. The training has reinforced in me my view that we are abusing women.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;In the home, the wife has to cook again, while the husband is resting. The training has reinforced&nbsp;my view that we are abusing women.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The training sessions have reinvigorated Group Village Head Patete&#039;s determination to&nbsp;champion women&#039;s&nbsp;rights. He has approached fellow community leaders in their forums and highlighted the plight of women and girls, as well as&nbsp;the responsibility of the leaders to change the way communities perceive these roles,&nbsp;to encourage an end to&nbsp;harmful practices.<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;It&rsquo;s not easy changing the old ways of doing things, but we are making progress,&rdquo; he says.<\/p>\n<p>Combatting underage and early marriage is a case in point.<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;There is no small crime,&rdquo; he says. &ldquo;All those who are found marrying off young girls are committing a crime. This is my stance and everyone in my area knows about this.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>Recently, he&nbsp;annulled the&nbsp;forced marriage of&nbsp;a 17-year-old girl to&nbsp;her 20-year-old boyfriend, after it was brought to&nbsp;his attention.<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;Many people think that if they marry off their daughter&nbsp;after becoming pregnant, it&rsquo;s a befitting punishment,&rdquo; he says. &ldquo;To the contrary, that&rsquo;s a big mistake. What the girls&nbsp;need is a second chance.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>The girl in question, Stella John, is now 20 years old and&nbsp;back in school. She is a member of her village&#039;s&nbsp;Spotlight Initiative safe space.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Many people think that if they marry off their daughter&nbsp;after becoming pregnant, it&rsquo;s a befitting punishment. That&rsquo;s a big mistake.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-uw-rm-mod=\"\">&ldquo;If it wasn&rsquo;t for the chief&rsquo;s intervention, I could have been a housewife now,&rdquo; says Ms.&nbsp;John.<\/p>\n<p>In her culture, girls who have gone through the initiation rites are considered ready for marriage. Since she&nbsp;turned down&nbsp;a marriage proposal, she has not endeared herself&nbsp;to those who uphold&nbsp;the tradition.&nbsp;The safe space has become&nbsp;a place of refuge for her, helping&nbsp;her to shrug off&nbsp;this criticism and focus&nbsp;on her goals.<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;It&rsquo;s not easy to be known [as]&nbsp;someone who turned down marriage for school,&rdquo; she says. &ldquo;That is what is driving me hard to fulfil my dream of becoming a doctor.&rdquo;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><i>Distributed by APO Group on behalf of UNFPA &#8211; East and Southern Africa.<\/i><\/p>\n<div class=\"well well-sm\"><b>Media files<\/b><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.africa-newsroom.com\/files\/large\/4ea6794dd42bc95\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.africa-newsroom.com\/files\/large\/4ea6794dd42bc95\" alt=\"UNFPA - East and Southern Africa\" style=\"max-width:500px\" \/><\/a><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.africa-newsroom.com\/files\/download\/4ea6794dd42bc95\">Download logo<\/a><\/div>\n<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.africa-newsroom.com\/\">Source: Africa Newsroom &#8211; APO<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sitting under a&nbsp;mango tree, Village Headman Patete marvels at a group of girls who are&nbsp;singing as they walk to&nbsp;a nearby primary school. In the past, a scene like this was not common in the village. 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